Having a budget is simply being intentional with money. And being intentional, in any aspect if life, requires that we focus our energy where it is most effective or needed.
Most of the energy involved in budgeting goes not into deciding, but in doing. The first step to budgeting is of course laying out a written plan. But the bulk of budgeting involves controlling and tracking expenses - a process that can be time-consuming and cumbersome.
But over 80% of the items listed on my family's budget are for amounts which we do not control on a daily, weekly, or even monthly basis. Short of moving or refinancing, our mortgage will stay the same. Our subscriptions are for services that we plan to keep long term. And while we can be conservative with utilities, the amounts we are billed reflect our family's routine and lifestyle.
As a working adult and busy mom, tracking this 80% as a part of my budgeting routine is not an efficient use of my time or my energy. Now if I need to cut expenditures then by all means I will turn to these items and trim the fat. But once the budget is lean, these amounts are not where pennies will be pinched. So quite frankly, I set these aside and focus on the remaining 20% regarding tracking and controlling spending.
Yes, that is right. I only regularly track and control 20% of our budget!
I first divide my full written budget into two categories. Once I have listed all of my monthly expenses and have assigned a function to every dollar of income, I select a small number of items for my "mindfulness needed" category and all the rest (the 80%) fall aptly into "out-of-sight, out-of-mind."
"Mindfulness Needed": The Items to Regularly Track and Control
Essentially these are items that I can influence on a day-to-day basis and can squeeze pennies out of every purchase (whether I choose to or not...some weeks are better than others). Therefore, tracking and controlling these expenses pays off!
And importantly, I keep this list as short as possible. The goal is to focus my energy, not spread it too thin. The only items I now include in "mindfulness needed" are groceries, clothing, entertainment, and miscellaneous spending (misc because it varies depending on season).
"Out-of-sight, Out-of-mind": The Items to Track Infrequently
All other items (the 80%) are then lumped into our "out-of-sight, out-of-mind" category. Playing the role of a responsible adult, I of course budget these items first and foremost and ensure that they are paid each month. But I can simply have these payments auto-drafted and, despite their importance, they essentially do become out-of-sight and out-of-mind. These items include tithes, savings, mortgage, utilities, insurance, and subscriptions.
Other items in this category are highly predictable in both frequency and amount such as gas, vet/grooming for pets, oil changes, and haircuts. I include these with the 80% because I do not influence these amounts (i.e. gas) or do not influence these amounts on a daily or weekly basis (i.e. pets, oil changes, haircuts). My focusing on these items more than every 8 weeks, twice a year, or yearly, is simply wasted effort on my part.
Chances are that if you budget you already focus to some degree. I have a good friend that uses the cash envelop system very successfully. She actively decides which budget items to turn into cash envelops so that she and her husband control their spending. She of course does not make a cash envelop for her mortgage or insurance or the like because she does not need to daily track and control her spending on these items. Already her efforts are focused!
If you do not currently budget, likely one reason is due to the time, energy, and effort involved in tracking and controlling expenses. But perhaps you would be more likely to budget if you knew you only had to track and control a handful of items and thus drastically reduce the effort involved. After laying out the big-picture as far as focusing the budget, I will walk step-by-step through the planning process.
If you budget, how do you focus your energy? If you do not budget, would you be more likely to if you only had to track and control 20% on a regular basis?
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